WAH I SEEEEEEEERIOUSLY MISS MY BLACK HAIR LIKE OMG.
Makes me fairer!
LOLLLLL.
Nowadays many random people have been asking me
what exactly makes up my dream guy.
Haha very easy one lah...
NOT.
HEHEHE.
Because I prefer him to have two VERY different characteristics!
One very MANNNNN.
One very SOFT
Below are some other things I look out for
other than the usual typical expectations lah
like understanding, caring, loving, can make me laugh and shit.
-BE TRADITIONAL, ESPECIALLY DURING COURTSHIP
It is instinctive in me to nourish and dote upon the object of my heart and this can be all-encompassing in virtually every way.
I'm a traditional and home-oriented person by nature, so I would definitely prefer to follow the proper rules of courtship...
to fall in love and then make the arrangement a permanent one.
Very LKK right.
LOL
This includes proposing to me or anything else!
-MUST MAKE THE FIRST MOVE
I'm prone to wait until he makes the first move...
regardless of how strong my own feelings might be.
There is no other Zodiac Sign that can equal the intensity of a Cancer native's love, but such love is based upon the heart and is also maternally oriented rather than sexually oriented, with its worse tendency to be smothering.
- **********************MUST HAVE FUTURE PLANS FOR US
Although I tend to be swept off my feet by love,
but I am still perfectly capable of making a wise long term commitment
and putting earlier and less suitable potential partners out of my mind
when the time comes to choose a mate.
I know that if I choose the wrong partner, I will be a very unhappy soul and this state of misery is liable to reign for a long time,
since I rarely have the courage to admit that I made sucha grave mistake.
However I know, with the right partner, I will find that success, contentment and fulfilment follow as a natural course of events.
-SECURITY OMG******************************************
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NO.1 MOST IMPORTANT THING EVER!!
More than anything else, I desire security.
My home is not only my castle,
but also a moated fortress which stands against all the trials and tribulations of the world.
And honestly,
this need for feeling safe is soooo strong that if a partner cannot provide it,
I am certain to stray and begin to look elsewhere.
BUT if such is furnished, then I ASSURE (+stamp, signature, fingerprint, w/e) you,
I will be incredibly faithful, loyal and charming to you.
The best I will ever be.
I actually can give up quite a passionate romance in exchange for a more stable partnership.
From Zack to Malcolm.
Domestication means everything to me, but that doesnt mean Im into material things.
Rather, I rather wish to share everything with my mate and my house and home are symbolic of this desire.
He has to provide both the feeling and obvious presence of security.
Especially at home!!!!!
For instance, the potential mate could prepare and serve a good meal...
or lemme prepare something palatable.
THAT BRINGS ME TO MY NEXT POINT!!
-KNOWS HOW TO COOK!
OMG. Ok lah this isnt VERYYY important, but I'm talking about my ideal guy right,
SO YES IT IS.
LOLL
Imma foodie, and I eat alot.
Best if he can prepare HEALTHY YUMMEH MEALS OMG.
Wah shiok.
-DONT TAKE AWAY THINGS WHICH MEANS SOMETHING TO ME
.....which means alot of things actually. LOL.
But its just me.
I cant part with them.
I keep very weird things I know!
Little notes back in the old days, a few sweet wrappers, clothes which dont fit me at all, broken jewelry..
but they all mean alot to me. :(
I used to date this guy who kept saying I keep so much useless stuff and all...
it was our last date that day.
I mean, we can talk about it!
Try to compromise.
Dont throw away my 'useless' stuff without even asking me first though.
I get fcking angry.
All these little things make me who I am in one way or another.
So dont touch them.
AND YOU ARE SAFE.
WE WILL BE SAFE HAHAHA.
-BE MORE SENSITIVE.
I can joke, and I can take jokes.
But theres a limit and it depends who you are!
When you joke about not wanting me anymore, or dumping me away for some random hot chick,
I SERIOUSLY would believe a fraction of what you say.
Intentional or not, it can be almost as painful as piercing arrows.
I know myself better than anyone else,
and I work extremely hard to maintain an overall sense of security
and unkind or thoughtless comments can cause me to just withdraw for fear
that some additional damage will be done to my self-image.
MOST importantly, if you really wanna joke about anything, criticism should never be voiced regarding a my mother or any other members of my family. You can even criticize me at most, just not a word about my family.
-TRY NOT TO RAISE YOUR VOICE AT ME OR HIT ME (LOL)
Even when we're quarreling,
I would want a guy who can be calm and be reasonable when arguing.
My parents never hit me or really shouted at me at all in my life.
So I guess Im not used to it?
Lol.
It'll just make matters worst.
I remember once Malcolm and I were quarreling about a piece of GORENG PISANG HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHHA OMG
SO DUMBBBB.
But he raised his voice at me and I almost cried man.
WHY SO FIERCE
KNNCCBBBSDSKJDSDKN LOL HAH
-PATIENT WITH ME
I have HORRRRIIBBBLLEEE moodswings.
I can be damn happy one moment and damn emo on the next.
When I get pms or not, you cant really tell? Cos I have moodswings all the time? LOL
So its important for him to understand my emotional vulnerability.
Im prone to a certain moodiness and such is the way I can learn to bend and flow and provide what is needed to nurture those around me in my life.
The more a partner learns to enhance my ability to detach from what is transpiring and learn the truth of personal power which results in emotional freedom,
then the less this natural moodiness in me will manifest in overt ways.
-TALL
Haha security reasons lah. :P
-CAN REASSURE ME LIKE NOBODY BUSINESS COS IM AN INSECURE BITCH.
LOL
Above all else, I requiresconstant assurance that I am loved,
which could mean devoting more time to the romantic arena.
He has to constantly appeal to my loving nature and emotions.
Under no circumstances should I ever be belittled or subjected to scorn and/or sarcasm.
Very hurtful leh!
The Cancer woman is naturally supersensitive and can all too easily develop an inferiority complex if her attention is called to some peculiarity she may possess.
One such idiosyncrasy is likely to be the tendency to collect, rescue and save things that others would probably consider to be totally useless items. Stray pets...and possibly even stray people...could well find their way to this woman's doorstep. When contented and secure, the Cancer female makes for an excellent partner and a loving mother...one who will sacrifice anything and everything for those she loves.
-SHOW ME HIS SOFT SIDE
And let me mother him.
but I do wanna feel appreciated for that though!
Or I will feel like I am being taken advantage of,
then will be apt to accuse him of being lazy, selfish and degenerate.
I like to be mastered.
I seriously am not interested in winning every argument,
nor do I care if she comes out on top all the time.
In a long term commitment, I should be allowed to go my own way in every small matter BUT "bossed" in the larger ones.
To sum it all up, I just need an anchor, a mate who will constantly be reliable in the emotional sense.
A shoulder to cry on and also likes to share my laughter.
A partner with very masculine traits.
If you realised, I didnt put in rich, handsome, or fit.
Cos I believe all these are not permanent,
they will fade away someday.
They arent priceless.
You can earn them.
So yeah.
K DONE.
Im so simple right omg.
AHHAHAHAHAHA
xoxo
Ello, the name’s Sherena.
A homemade candlelight dinner/picnic for two on the beach!
Cuddling at home and watching a rented dvd together and eating popcorn
